There are a few tried and true rules for how to get your ex girlfriend back. First of all, let her leave. If you beg and plead for her to stay, this may diminish some of her respect for you. She might feel like you want to control her. Also, consider why you want her back. Do you really love her, or are you afraid of being alone? If this is the case, learn how to have fun again without her. Even if the two of you get back together, it is important to have periodic “me time” to prevent loosing any of the freshness in your relationship.
I was given advice for how to get my ex back from someone who had gotten their ex back several times. At first I wanted to ask, why did it have to take so many times? I mean, if the two of you are right for each other, there shouldn’t be multiple breakups, right? Wouldn’t you try to think of alternatives to calling it quits after every disagreement? Well, this person said that they would break up over trivial things because neither was mature enough to handle the responsibility of a relationship, but they enjoyed the good times. Eventually they got it right and have been married now for 25 years.
